Tuesday, February 16, 2010

The Way of the Cross for Children

The Way of the Cross for Children is a beautifully illustrated coloring book of the stations of the Cross that can be used for Lenten catechesis of children. It was written by Kathryn Mulderink, illustrated by Fr. Victor KyNam, with cover design by Clare Mulderink. The cover is an illustration, framed in purple, of Jesus falling under the weight of the Cross. The book opens with a space to write your own prayer and draw a picture followed by an introductory prayer that reminds us that Mary was with her son along the road to Calvary and at the foot of the cross.
Each station begins with the traditional “We adore You, O Christ and we bless You because by Your holy Cross You have redeemed the world” and is then broken down into “I think of Jesus” which describes the action of the station and “I talk to Jesus” which is a conversation with the Lord that should help a child to gain understanding of the significance of each station. This is an important introduction to personal prayer which teaches children how to speak intimately with God as if he were right there with them. Each “I talk to Jesus” section ends with a reminder of the penitential theme “Teach me to love You as I should and help me never to sin again” prior to closing with a simple two line rhyming prayer.
For example, the “I think of Jesus “section of the third station demonstrates the completeness of Christ’s humanity and His acceptance of the frailty of His human body: “Jesus is God but He does not use His powers to make His cross easier. He falls because the cross is so heavy and He is so weak from the scourging and rough treatment of the soldiers. Our sins have made Him very, very sad. But He wants us to be very, very happy so He gets up and continues to carry His cross all the way to the end.”
The sixth station, Veronica wipes the face of Jesus, calls to mind the words of Isaiah:

And he shall grow up as a tender plant before him, and as a root out of a thirsty ground: there is no beauty in him, nor comeliness: and we have seen him, and there was no sightliness, that we should be desirous of him: Despised, and the most abject of men, a man of sorrows, and acquainted with infirmity: and his look was as it were hidden and despised, whereupon we esteemed him not. Surely he hath borne our infirmities and carried our sorrows: and we have thought him as it were a leper, and as one struck by God and afflicted. But he was wounded for our iniquities, he was bruised for our sins: the chastisement of our peace was upon him, and by his bruises we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray, every one hath turned aside into his own way: and the Lord hath laid on him the iniquity of us all – Isaiah 53:2-6 (Douay-Rheims 1899American Edition).

Then under the “I think of Jesus” section:
Jesus does not look like Himself; His face is all covered with blood and bruised and swollen. He cannot see well because of the blood in His eyes. Veronica feels sorry for Him and risks making the soldiers angry by stepping out of the crowd and wiping His face with her veil. Jesus is grateful and leaves a picture of His face on her veil.
“I talk to Jesus” for the tenth station leads children to the understanding of their own part in Christ’s crucifixion:

Jesus the soldiers hurt you over and over again. When I am mean to others, I hurt You too, because You live in their souls just as You do in mine. I hurt You also when I am selfish, because You gave everything for us, even Your clothes and every drop of Your blood. Help me to be kind and generous to others. Teach me to give to others and not take form them. Teach me to love You as I should and help me never to sin again.
This reaches out to us even beyond Lent to remind us of the need to be giving. Another reminder that can reach our hearts even beyond the Lenten season arrives in the closing rhyme of the thirteenth station, “Jesus I will never go astray or make a mistake if I obey.” This is a reminder of Christ’s obedience to His father even unto death.

The book ends with a closing prayer which continues to instruct, “Jesus, on Easter morning, Your body will rise from the tomb and You will continue to give and teach for forty more days.” The prayer continues and asks our Lord for help to remember His sacrifice and love as well as the joy that follows sorrow. There is a space at the end of the book that children can use to copy a scripture verse and illustrate it and another page on which children are encouraged to write a prayer or poem of their own for Jesus.

Over all, I found this book to be well written at a level that will be easily understood by children. The black and white illustrations are very well done and the purple cover sets the tone of penance for the Lenten journey.

I found the description in the fourth station’s “I talk to Jesus” section problematic. It refers to Mary, Mother of God and reads, “…she knew that You had to die so that I could live forever with You, but it hurt her heart to see you suffering so much.” While Mary certainly was hurt by watching her son suffer, it is presumptuous to assume she knew or understood the reasons for Christ’s death until after His resurrection.

This book does not have a nihil obstat or imprimatur, although it has been submitted for such approval. Canon 827 of the 1983 Code of Canon Law says that writings dealing with catechetical formation cannot be used without an imprimatur. So this book can be freely used in a home setting, but might have to wait until it will be a good fit for a CCD class or school. It could be used as a supplemental in a parish with permission of the priest.

The author, Kathryn Mulderink is a homeschooling mother of seven, President of the local Community of Secular Discalced Carmelites, and the Director of Faith Formation for St Isidore Parish in Grand Rapids, MI. She is also a Marian Catechist. She was the only English-speaking writer to be a finalist for the Rielo Mystical Poetry Prize in 1998. She is a sometime poet, oft-time blogger, and author of several books for adults and children.

Clare Mulderink is a graphic design student who published several book covers before graduating high school. She has designed promotional materials for the local Harbor Fest and other large events. She continues to offer her services in formatting graphics for publishing, particularly book covers and business cards. She is also Kathryn’s daughter.

Fr. Victor KyNam was a seminarian and artist from Vietnam when he first found Kathryn’s poems and was moved to illustrate them. He worked with her again on her Way of the Cross coloring book for children. He is an accomplished artist and has completed several large statues in the Grand Rapids diocese, where he is currently pastor of St. Anthony and St. Edward parishes.

"Warshing" clothes recipe

I received this in an e-mail and had to share it. I do not know who the original author was.

Never thought of a "washer" in this light before; what a blessing!"Warshing Clothes Recipe" -- imagine having a recipe for this!!!Years ago an Alabama grandmother gave the new bride the following recipe:this is an exact copy as written and found in an old scrapbook - withspelling errors and all.
Build fire in backyard to heat kettle of rain water.
Set tubs so smokewont blow in eyes if wind is pert.
Shave one hole cake of lie soap inboilin water.
Sort things, make 3 piles
1 pile white,1 pile colored,1 pile work britches and rags.

To make starch, stir flour in cool water to smooth, then thin down with boiling water.

Take white things, rub dirty spots on board,
scrub hard, and boil, then rub colored don't boil just wrench and starch.
Take things out of kettle with broom stick handle,
then wrench, and starch.
Hang old rags on fence.
Spread tea towels on grass...Pore wrench water in flower bed.
Scrub porch with hot soapy water.Turn tubs upside down.

Go put on clean dress, smooth hair with hair combs. Brew cup of tea, sitand rock a spell and count your blessings.
Paste this over your washer and dryer
Next time when you think things arebleak,
read it again, kiss that washing machine and dryer, and givethanks.
First thing each morning you should run and hug your washer and dryer,
also your toilet---those two-holers used to get mighty cold!
For you non-southerners - wrench means, rinse ;)

Saturday, February 06, 2010

A Review of Dear God, I don't get it!

Aaron Ajax is a sixth grader who has not had much change in his life. He has had the same best friend since the first day of kindergarten. He has never moved. There has been no hardship or uncertainty. That all changes when his father loses his job as a local radio personality and the family is faced with moving from their hometown in Montana to Bismarck, North Dakota. Aaron has a difficult time dealing with these changes. Dear God, I don’t get it! takes us inside Aaron’s head as he tries to understand why God is not answering his prayers the way he would like.
Not only is Aaron angry with God about the move, but he has preformed opinions of the area to where his family is moving: “I opened my eyes to see a lady in the car next to me blowing her nose. ‘What am I doing sleeping with my face smashed against the car window?’ I wondered. My mind was in a groggy, just-woke-up fog. It took only seconds for me to remember the awful truth – we were leaving Montana and headed to a place I had thus far only heard about in jokes.”
Aaron fears he will be unable to make friends. The first person his age that he sees is a girl who pelts him with a snowball and the first boy he meets is openly hostile — all this before he even starts school. He is jealous of his younger brother Luke’s ability to make friends easily wherever he goes. When he does start school, he discovers that the hostile boy, Josh, is in his class and worries that will Josh influence the other kids against him.
He begins daydreaming about being a hero and his attempts to make this happen lead to a series of misadventures — including recruiting his little brother to pretend he has locked himself in the bathroom so that he can be “rescued.” When Aaron finally has to explain everything to his parents, his father tells him, “Real heroes don’t cause problems and then act like they saved the day. It is dishonest.”
Things turn around for Aaron when he stops trying to make things happen and begins to rely on God. He prays for forgiveness for the dishonest things he did and asks God to help him to put God first. Once he realizes that he should just be himself, things get better. He risks losing his new friends by doing what is right instead of what is easy, and he winds up helping the class troublemaker to fit in and become” just one of the guys.” This, along with another surprise chance to be a real hero, shows Aaron that God is still on his side — even in North Dakota.
There are vocabulary words and thought-provoking questions for each chapter located in the back of the book. The only thing I would have done differently would have been to place the questions and vocabulary for each chapter at the end of each chapter, instead. An advanced third-grade reader would have no difficulty with this book, and it would be appropriate for children through sixth grade.
I will be using this book in my home school to help my son understand to trust God always, even in difficult circumstances. But this book is useful for parents who are not homeschooling also, to open up communication about the prayer lives of their children.
Patti Maguire Armstrong does a great job exploring Aaron’s feelings as he goes through these changes, skillfully demonstrating that children often have the same difficulties in their faith lives as adults, and that they may feel alone and unable to express these feelings. As a mother of ten children, two girls and eight boys, including two adopted AIDS orphans from Africa, she has a great deal of experience dealing with children’s emotions. Her husband Mark was a broadcast journalist for many years and she draws on this for the father’s job in Dear God, I don’t get i! She has co-authored the Catholic Amazing Grace book series and is often featured on Catholic Exchange. Her website is raisingcatholickids.com.
Freelance commercial artist Shannon Wirrenga illustrated the book in a style reminiscent of the Beverly Cleary books — a style very appropriate for this story of a boy’s blunders and recovery. Her cover art captures the frustration that Aaron was feeling when he was leaving his home in Montana to move to North Dakota. Wirrenga also illustrated The Little Cloud by M.G. Maher and Chicago Bob by Scott Eide. A resident of Bismarck, North Dakota, she seeks to serve God through her artwork and is the coordinator of Artists Celebrating Christ (March 18-21 at the Benedictine Center at the University of Mary in Bismarck). You can learn more about her at http://www.shannonsartroom.com/.